Growth Conflict

Can't help thinking its strange that the clouds aren't closing in... sometimes we're so used to wallowing in our sorrow that when things are going great, you sorta want things to go wrong pretty soon. Heck, maybe thats why I haven't been able to write much lately, there just isn't anything I have to bitch about or ponder lately. Its no wonder that happier people are usually simpler people. I just hope i'm not becoming stagnent... if i start smelling a little stale, I might just have to create some problems in my life. So I won't feel like a peg in a clockwork sometimes... hmm, maybe thats why women love to create drama so much, and hence, the females usually have higher EQ than men. so my new equation for today is that: conflict + alcohol = growth + alcohol (alcohol can be replaced by herbal supplements but is not an integral part of the equation) =) Damnit, I'm running out of excuses to drink.

Comments

[shane]

thank u andi love u

[amor]

wahoohooo!!!...i kno what u mean!!!....i vowed to have no more drama in life...m bored...haha!dang!...the first taste of beer in my lips used to feel like a button that uncoils all the tension of a hard day's work turned to a weeklong stress...week after week...i keep on lookin for that feelin still..**sigh!...m still learning to enjoy the simpler things in life...this must be the effect of having too much free time in my hands...hihih!!..m havin some gut feelin it's doin me no good...m confused if stressfree=freetime=think-time=emo...m contemplating on gettin a second job again...at least...the equation wud turn to be stess=less time=less think time=no more drama time=beer appreciation..haha!!...

[rad]

haha, nice equation. i love maths and never seen such a complicated equation before. LOL

stress + alcohol = a man

stress + suicidal = a woman (?)

[' ' ' ' 'J.C. ']

astigin ang blog u kua

[Anggie]

"Heck, maybe thats why I haven't been able to write much lately, there just isn't anything I have to bitch about or ponder lately."

Nice point u've there ;p I only write in my blogs in times dat I was broken hearted, really mad, etc etc any kinds of strong emotion, hehehe.

[brilly]

ok

[pArAbOLa]

well. you already knew that you are running out of excuses for defending your bestfiend... the alcohol...

then what are you still doing? cut it!

chill...

[senza]

kellent jugz

[shallie]

'pag in love, lahat maganda...

'pag nagkamali,wala ng maganda?!

[jewel earth]

well, may i add a comment? no offense of a drinking beer... its better to drink than to be dramatic!!!! let's toast!!!!:) LOL

[Lady]

for an man so smart to say that women has higher IQ, what better compliment? shall the female population say "tnx"?

this one just made me smile just as i face another boring Monday...

drink cause you can drink...not many people can do so..

[eric]

a

[dEn-DeN]

hi!
we don't really know each other...

i don't even know if i'm allowes to comment...

but.. here goes..

"sometimes we're so used to wallowing in our sorrow that when things are going great, you sorta want things to go wrong pretty soon"

true... true...

can't seem to put to things in a better perspective than that...

[Norayda Shinab]

hahaha! i too am only obliged to blog/write in moments of dire misery or extreme emotional or mental confusion. things that my mind (being stuck inside my small skull) alone cannot comprehend, hence the need to put it in full view where i can read and make some sense into it like an algebra equation or something.

[unggul]

So 'gay' post.. :P kiddin'..

[charmaine chew]

hahaz... its funny yet true!! i guess we all just love to read and write about all our bad stuff... to gain sympathy eventhough we dunno it.. it suppose it is something that has become common to the extreme... but i really like it that you pointed out what we all percieve to be lost... gone... invisible.. not there!!

[ayhen]

well well well...la lang

[vanessa]

hi...................................................................................................................

[vanessa]

hi..................................

[heddy mae]

hi.............

[heddy mae]

marisse,hi arn

[Giovanny]

DESPERT

[anna]

You are handsome.. I like you.. Regards to your body, i hope it's a masculine parts of body,,,

[oky]

asik skul lagi......!!!!

[mark]

add nyo nman me sa mga fren nyo.

[Kathleen kay]

i tried to make it okay to cover up my pain.. msyado n kceng msakit sa dibdib yong mga png-g3wa mo...sobra na kc to!! im a dick!!! im addicted to you...

[samuel]

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[RuTh]

haAyy wla lng nka2boring ang araw n 2!!!...

[raquel]

>>>> I Do Understand <<<<<

[Lovely]

hmmm.... not all females...agree a aq s blog mu , for me kb2wan ang drama!!!

[vanesa]

drink till you drop, ewan q lng f mka-formulate k p ng equation,,,I agree females have higher EQ, and Males are Stoics!!!

[NdrewPu]

wow, people really dig you..

well, I'm not really good at understanding such a poetic blog..

for all i know, sometimes we're just hoping that there's something to be excited about, and there's no such excitement as good as when you get out of something bad.. I think that's why we're wishing something wrong's gonna happen soon.. and alcohol is a good start..

[Henry]

lagu-lagu J-Rock slalu gw suka

[Casey]

lol...you're running out of excuses to drink !! REally?! bullshit...

[Kristine Alexia]

you know, you'r just hurting your self!!! just calm down!!!think of those happy memories that you've xperience!!!enjoy lyf!! think those special persons that comes in ur lyf and make them or think that they are ur lyf!!! P.S!!! PRAY always and try to wake up with a smile in ur face!!!
remember that God loves us always!!!! Thank you!!!
i'm praying for ur gud and happy lyf!!! if u want to be happy, let urself to do THose ryt.. GB u and your family always!!!!

[Mushed pumpkin]

Yeah, i know what you mean.. Its been forever since i posted something on my blog and read someone else's blog. The same reason that i dont have anything to bitch about, idk but I'm just weird or maybe bcoz i stop caring for small things. I mean ive been happier and less stress out. Yay for Alcohols <3

[maricel]

ahmmm....wow!!!!!

[robbie]

soon...

[karl]

nice one!!

[Merissa]

wla lang,,,,,,,,

[shez]

thnk's 4 the add....^_^....

[BeShhhh]

u know i dont mean to be offensive or something but i dont think a problem free life makes a persons life stale....hmmm u should thank God for it =) after all, life is beautiful.

[-hashizume-]

you pose something with sense...

i like that...

keep updating

take care

[Lost Memories]

Geez.. i know what u mean...
But sumtimes i can't write anything when there's too much problem..
can't choose which story i have to tell, i think.. or maybe juz bacause i forget to write it down while i'm in a battle..

[jade]

hi!!!!
can i join!!!!heheheheh......
first time lang

[azrina]

hi.............
comey nye.....

[gayathri]

Hmm, interesting. Nothing to complain about? Let's switch places. Try showing your mom your little blog and see if things don't start wading through stagnancy right into high action.
Or alternatively, you could take on the problem of another. Try and help a child or a dying person for instance. Perhaps your sense of stagnancy may stem from the fact that you are wasting precious brain power on doing the 'Math of Alcohol'. Now, although personally i found it to be rather funny and interesting, it does strike me strange that you have enough time in your day to have come up with that equation in the first place.
Well, if all else fails, just think about this. Without 'drama', you are boring. Seriously, do you want to be that guy?

[shairex]

... hai...

[ashley-]

hi

[karen]

which do you prefer? a person you loves completely or a person who makes you feel complete? why? ehehehe

[Yve of One]

Hmm as for me I get a gut feeling that when I get too happy, the good times will soon peter out, and something wrong will happen. it's like that most of the time so i get used to it.

that bit about women was a bit stereotypical and has a personal touch to it. it is a bit general too. (there, it is showered with bits of uh bits). im a woman and i dont want too much drama in life. i hate creating them since oh that will make life complicated. god, this is a classical conundrum of women and men and booze and emotional confidences.

[asep]

overexcited on everything and getting confuse on understanding then..hmh..to often to happen that why..just stuck for all effort..maybe that it has to be like that way...i put my sympati on that matter cause it's mine to...

[Arnold]

C'mon man. You can do better than this. The words are there but the style is missing.Anyways, it depends upon your mood.But be reminded, you have lots of readers that can be influenced one way or another. It's worth your while to even scrap the bottom of the barrel. Women don't have monopoly over pathos. Yeah, the worst oftentimes takes out the best in us. It helps to reminisce about the past as E.A.Poe did in "Eleonora".

[ferlyn may]

hi 8's my 1'st time 2 post dz blog..,plz join me...

[Love]

nice thoughts...

[zally]

...Hi!!! can u add me??tnx

[angel]

hey to all member

[emily]

hi nothing important to say i was just accidentally came in sorry nice i did like the posts..c yahh

[Carlo]

life is life.... it doesnt warrant an excuse. live it.

[sherwin]

hello all BPE in pup batch 99-2003 how are you now,add nyo ko as your friend.

[Benedicto]

hello... your look beautiful

[chris]

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[alex]

people are having different lives and experiences, that's why we write all foolish stuffs

[argel]

ellow.,.,.,

[joan]

hello...............

[YheLrisH]

hi....

I juzt dont know what to say... hehe...

[lilet]

kakalokah nmn blogs nyu.

[r cie]

of ol d blogs i rid..haiz...wer so comon..ndrewpu? luv s jst a pain!!! dey r ol murderrer!!!

[Marc]

who u?...siong ka sama mo?!!!

[Cai]

hey, nice to read another entry in your blog... it's been a while really... miss the entertainment your writing brings... hehe... = )

[TiNGTiNG]

Hi......

[Ahdian]

how kind you are, i'm waiting someone like you, understanding and holding on chaos, using logic and positive thinking...everyone called me one hundred egoism

[NICHAEL]

hi!!! hello, how ar you???

[BingLe]

nice blog. made me think. :)

[ita]

hallo...how are you today...??????,,

[Jonalyn]

hi...........how are you today???

[Joana Marie]

Good Day! TO tell honestly, i really dont understand what you mean to say.By the way, God bless you in all the ways!!

[janet]

hello

[Firman_b e c k]

man cia goreng patut

[Rosalie]

Guys! to lang masasabi ko! i love u goodbye! at para sa mga inggetera,,mamatay kau sa ingget!

[primer]

HELLO GUYS I LOVE TO ALL FRIENDS

[sulak]

hallo..

[r cie]

sumdy,ur gna realzd..1 day ul c ds tru my eyes,bt den i wnt even b der il b hapy sumdy evn f i cre..i knw u dnt rily c my wrth,u thnk ur d lst guy on earth,,bt iv got news 4u..i knw im nt dat strong bt it wnt tke long..wnt tke long..cz..sumday sum1's gna love me d way i wntd u 2 nid me..sumdy sum1's gna tke ur plce..1day i 4got abt u ul c i wnt evn mis u sumday..sumdy..ryt now i knw u cnt tell im dwn & iam nt doin well..bt 1day ds tears it ws ol run dry..i wnt hve 2 cry swit gudnyt..

[edward]

boring nmn!

[TatuM]

you know what in every problem theres always a solution, you just have to find it..and believe that someone up there will help you find ways...

cheer up!

[TatuM]

you know what in every problem theres always a solution, you just have to find it..and believe that someone up there will help you find ways...

cheer up!

[Hanie Mae]

haAaizzZtTT...m sicK of iT!

[penne]

i can relate.. u know the drama thing..

[joane]

hehe funny!!!!!

[joane]

ohhhh? come on.....haha funny!!!!!

[joane]

ihte this feelin promise..ihate 2 fall in luv.but i cant control it.. i allready fall in luv 2 cuy.icant hide it and pretend dat his nothin 4 me!!!! grrrrrrrrr.............

[marie]

hi

[NeyNna]

hi...
sweet

[Clementina]

DON'T SAY IT 'PROBLEM' BUT BETTER 'CHALLENGE' OR 'CONFLICT'..Be my guest if you could be in my position right now..this moment. I am in a middle of a 'costly' conflict & almost in a state to 'explode'!! What wrong with simple life? I also wonder..coz my life never simple..I do have a great life which is COLOURFUL!!

[Makaw]

i was planning to write my blog too when i saw yours featured.

i enjoyed reading it as i can also relate.

take care!

[princess]

hi there...you're cute,huh...

[lorina]

yah i agree to you.l.u know what when i feel so sad il just keep on writing b'coz thats the way i can hide what i feel towards others..i just keep on writing to make me feel okey and happy..i dont want others to know that i feel sad..so for me i feel comfortable when i will wrote all may hide feelings...i feel satisfied...

[jade gladys]

u know u loke good...............................yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[Gynick]

Sorrow come, sorrow goes
Without sorrow, happyness wont grow...
If drink can help, why not?
I take it as when i feel to release myself...No matter what..
Take care

[Henry]

Knowing Yud He Waw He, our creator and His one only son that has the words of eternal life, Yehoshua HaMashiah, Whom He wants us to rule, reign and sit with Him in His throne which is our eternal destiny of our soul. HallejuYah.Amen..!

[Hayati Susi]

hi there...
what u wrote there is interesting.... thanks to u i just remember that there's actually sun behind those grey clouds out in d sky....
thanks man....
hope ur life got better

[alorah]

halu

[Susie]

hi

[Doreen]

Yeah well......

[cEe jHay]

how to create a blog??

[princess]

cut it out mr.!!!you really should stop drinking..it wont do you any good,trust me..at my age of 17 i can tell you,i've been there,done that.

[M m]

drinking is cool..
wag lang sobra..
num tau minsan.
chill!

[lowiely]

what happen ba if u drink?
can u explain...other say its not in ur mind....nde alam gingawa..but other say's i know what i do..d lang ma control its thats real?

[jelcyn]

your best friend is also your best enemy.. huhuhu..how could she do such things to me.. after my good deeds for her, these all i can get from her? duh.. how pathetic she is.. God knows i've been such a true bestfriend to her.. how could she betrayed me and betrayed my mother, she knows that my mom has a heart desease and then she come up and say bad words to my mom.. oh my goodness.. does she really have a heart? is she afraid to God? well maybe NO. but i think i ok now.. coz i do still have my 2 other bestfriends and i've met lots of new friends.. someday she will realize all her faults.. i've never been a bad influence to her.. and that's how it goes..

[blue ace]

gotta gowh...

[lhen]

elow lng

[lhen]

elow lng

[nellie]

hi guys....this is my first time writing...but all i have to say is that...i HAD A BAD EXPERIENCE WITH MY LAST RELATIONSHIP.....AND WE ALSO HAD A BABY TOGETHER...i found out that he had cheated so it was a bitter pill for me to swallow,t accept that that was the end of a fairy tale that didnt end happily.....from then on...i had to forget but i will never forgive.....anyway it took me 6 months to kinds forget the pain hes caused......and i found someone great....what sdo u guys think.....??????????????????

[Amor]

wel im a new comer but i would like to make a nice recommendation about this article: every new comer should read this

[marc kun]

ok... ur new eq:

conflict + alcohol = growth + alcohol

can be simplified into:

conflict = growth...

(that is if we subtract alcohol from both sides of the equation)....

~marc-kun

[angel]

hi guyz... im so much overwhelm for the responses of my friends specially those living abroad. Merry Christmas everyone... Lav u!

[angel]

hi guyz... im so much overwhelm for the responses of my friends specially those living abroad. Merry Christmas everyone... Lav u!

[leonor]

ITs A pleasure to be here

[khursiah]

hi

[meliza]

hi....well...men & women...have different needs and point of view about things...guy finds us crazy & hard to understand...its vice versa...i do wonder why is it hard for guys to express their feelings & thoughts...is it that hard???maybe...like when we use both...our heart and head...
which should be 70% & 30%...or is it right to go for 50/50...hahaha...confusing isn't it?

[YeSha Fe]

hi guys..,merry x-mas.,hope na masaya kaung lahat..,2gether your loveOnes..

[YeSha Fe]

hi guys..,merry x-mas.,hope na masaya kaung lahat..,2gether your loveOnes..

[YeSha Fe]

add u naman me sa fs nyo.cute_firmzkie@yahoo.com.ph,TY,,,

[agus]

ajakin temen donk buat gue

[masmas]

nice one ... nice blog...

[krissa jae]

hey,
alcohol? come, lets drink, i love that one huh,you know what, i wanna get my self drunk now, i start hating my self now,I dont know why God do this to me. I wanna die right now..how bout you?
hows your life now?
Hope someday we see each other to know each other well.
love yah!!!!! <----

[jhoan jasmin]

haha, jafake

[jhoan jasmin]

haha jafake

[moy]

so true man.....so true....

[Penelope]

=) life sucks! were just given too much time to do anything we want. which we could also do nothing... which could lead to an endless question of what.KEEP IT UP! its nice to know someone feels the way i do...=)

[ren]

cool..

[ani_cEL]

hi .. good afternoon sir

i juz wanna appreciate your effort in sharing aLL this very nice, very inspiring, very memorabLe and very exciting bLogs....

same to others, i aLso accidentaLLy read our bLog intitLed "DREAMS OF NEW YEAR" and after tHat, i found my seLf reading aLL your bLogs... they aRe aLL so cooL.. i like them aLL... how i wish i couLd aLso have a wide range thingking so tHat i could do same thing as you do .____.

niways sir, keep on posting and inspire other peopLe like me.... staybLess and keepsafe

[Dee]

I agree that happier people are usually simpler people and you sure have a multitude of fans out there. That alone calls for a celebration. *Wink* A good reason to drink. *Bottoms up* Cheers...!

[jayn]

hey,not every female like that..talking bout alcohol..it does really help us realese stress and tension. thats what i think cause i do it sometime...

[Lynette]

I think I can relate to this. I can write better if I'm sad/depressed. I think happy people are too busy being happy, so why bother...

[' ' ' ' ' ' ' ']

now i know why mosts of my blog posts were about sadness.. hahahaha

[judithriann]

a....i dont actually know how to comment on this blog..thing is, i just wanted to get ur attention.
Unfortunately, I couldn't add u as my friend coz I dont basically know ur email add and ur last name.. Pls add me up.. judithriannfernandez@yahoo.com
Thanks. I LOVE UR BLOGS SIR AND I WANT TO BEerFRIEND U..hehe

[Genaline]

I really find your blogs substantial..meaty..
thought-provoking..seldom do I hear men write their brains out..you're one of a kind..try my equation which has helped me a lot for quite sometime..
conflict + faith = growth
You're one great WORLD MOVER and DREAM-MAKER, don't allow yourself be beaten by alcohol which could (WORST)turn you a LOSER..(God forbids) God bless you!!

[Genaline]

I really find your blogs substantial..meaty..
thought-provoking..seldom do I hear men write their brains out..you're one of a kind..try my equation which has helped me a lot for quite sometime..
conflict + faith = growth
You're one great WORLD MOVER and DREAM-MAKER, don't allow yourself be beaten by alcohol which could (WORST)turn you a LOSER..(God forbids) God bless you!!

[Simply Red]

hmmm, agree that conflict equals growth. and we all need these conflicts for us to grow because if we wish to remain carefree it's quite boring. A fulfilling life is in snyc with sadness & happiness.